Building Better Relationships with my Kids

I really want to write a blog about this because it is a story I often hear.

Mothers Words to Me.

A solution to losing control is looking deeply at ourselves, and our relationship with our children.

1. SLOW DOWN
2. RETHINK HOW I AM LIVING
3. EVALUATE CHILDRENS EXPECTATIONS
4. SHOW MYSELF RESPECT
5. BE REAL

Slow Down

How fast do I have to get there? What is the consequence if I don’t get there when I had planned?

Slowing the mind down and finding peace eases anxiety and stress and lengthens our fuses.

Rethink

Am I living the life I want to lead and if not how can I make changes? How is my happiness impacting on the words I use with my childrens?

Evaluate Children’s expectations

Do the expectations my children have fit into my reality? In a world of entitlement what is the level of my children’s entitlement and how does this affect my life?

Self Respect

Looking truthfully, do I respect myself ? How am I allowing myself to be treated?

Be Real

Can I live authentically or is my beliefs of society and its expectations preventing me from feeling free? How deep is my level of frustration?

By looking deeply at yourself and your relationship with your child with professional help, feelings of frustration and disappointment can change to peace, and calmness. A new experience of parenting can be had.